I have three little girls and D3 is just 3 1/2 months old. D1 and D2 are 7 and 5 respectively. D1 and D2 like to help with their little sister. It is great that they are so engaged and helpful. They like to play with D3 and try to get her to smile. They pick out her outfits for the day and keep the diaper stockpiles around the house well stocked. They like to sit and hold her and they are willing to entertain her if she is awake and we need to shower or cook. So far no one has suggested that we send her back. I think they have decided that she is a keeper. All of that is fantastic. However, they are cramping my style.